APOLOGIES AND THE CONCEPT OF “FORGIVE AND FORGET”

Literally, to forgive and forget means to stop blaming someone for something the person has done to hurt you and to stop remembering what happened but, do we ever really forget? No, I don't think so. The deed is done. The scar has formed. The memory has already been stored in the brain. You can't … Continue reading APOLOGIES AND THE CONCEPT OF “FORGIVE AND FORGET”

SEEKING COUNSEL & TAKING ADVICE

I know you're thinking, "counsel and advice have similar meaning, so why use both in one title?" Well, there's a reason why I used both in the title of this article. Keep reading to find out.  I'll define the act of seeking counsel as going out of your way and putting aside your ego to … Continue reading SEEKING COUNSEL & TAKING ADVICE

HOW DO PEOPLE FEEL ABOUT YOU?

Not everyone will like you. Learn to be okay with that. Whenever I find myself in a new environment, my first instinct is to look out for those who don't like me at all, those who feel indifferent about me, and those who seem to like me, respectively. When you're going to be around a … Continue reading HOW DO PEOPLE FEEL ABOUT YOU?

8 THINGS TO DO WHEN LIFE THROWS STONES AT YOU

Work through your Emotions: You need to allow yourself to feel. There is absolutely nothing wrong with crying yourself to sleep or having some alone time to be emotional. You actually end up feeling better and it sometimes comes with getting closure. Bottling up your emotions will only make you feel worse. It might seem … Continue reading 8 THINGS TO DO WHEN LIFE THROWS STONES AT YOU

10 Tips for Winning at Life

Keep your Private Life Private: The importance of this tip cannot be overemphasized. Not saying you shouldn't post pictures on your social media or write motivational stories about yourself to encourage and uplift people, all I'm saying is that you keep private stuff like your love life/marriage, your next business plan to yourself and your … Continue reading 10 Tips for Winning at Life